Father’s Day: How Insecurity and Lack of Appreciation Impact Nigerian Fathers

Several Nigerian fathers have expressed that the country’s growing insecurity and a perceived lack of societal appreciation are taking a serious physical and emotional toll on men who are trying to provide for their families.

During Father’s Day, these fathers spoke separately to the News Agency of Nigeria (NAN), voicing a desire for greater support from both the government and their families to help ease the increasing burdens of modern fatherhood.

Mr Shayo Bamisetemi, a father of three, urged the government to create a safer environment for citizens, insisting that the current insecurity situation be addressed urgently rather than politicised.

“As a dedicated father striving to provide a fulfilling life for my family, I urge the Nigerian government to create a more habitable environment for our loved ones,” Bamisetemi said. “The current security issues are overwhelming, and our children deserve a safe atmosphere as they pursue their education.”

He added that a father’s desire for appreciation and respect for his daily contributions was fundamental, stating that “gratitude is a catalyst for doing even more.”

Mr Bright Chigozie, a factory supervisor in Apapa who spends long hours away from home, said safety remains a major source of anxiety for many parents.

He noted that every father dreams of seeing his children grow up in a secure environment where they can pursue their education and aspirations without fear.

Chigozie said that many fathers work tirelessly to meet family needs, often enduring severe physical and emotional stress in the process without receiving enough commendation.

“Beyond government intervention, appreciation and support from family members are equally important,” he said. “Words of encouragement, respect, and recognition from spouses and children go a long way in boosting a father’s morale.”

Mr Julius Adeyemi, an accountant, argued that fathers do not receive enough accolades despite their heavy sacrifices and contributions toward the upkeep of their homes.

He said society has remained biased against men, failing to give them the same recognition accorded to their female counterparts.

“My work keeps me away from home most nights, and this is having a toll on my health,” Adeyemi lamented.

Mr Moses Akintokun, a chartered accountant, urged the government to commit more to the nation’s economic prosperity to cushion the predominant financial stress among fathers.

“Men are really going through different kinds of stress—mental, financial, etc., but only very few talk about it,” Akintokun said. “We are in a world where fathers get little or no appreciation for their fatherly roles because they are not as visible and available compared to women in the upbringing of the children.”

He added that, despite the lack of accolades, his ultimate desire remains to see his children succeed, make him proud, and positively impact society.

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